An author is encouraging men to reflect on what they contribute to relationships, rather than only directing that question toward women.

Henry Onyema was specifically referring to men who lack s3xual control.

He wrote on Facebook: “I look at many men and conclude that they are just escorts to real men, that they are mistakes to manh00d.

“What value do you bring to the table? Stop asking ladies for that, ask yourself. Who would want to have you in her life?”